Friday, July 7, 2017

The Art of Saying Sorry

 
Is it really too late to say sorry?

We say sorry whenever we hurt someone. We say sorry when we have said offensive words. We say sorry when we have done things that brought pain to others. We say sorry when we didn't comply to the things we should. We say sorry when we refuse people about their favors. We say sorry when its the last thing that we can do.

We are Humans

Do not forget that it is inevitable for us to commit mistakes and we know that no one is perfect. Being a mere human is being susceptible to make wrong decisions sometimes. But it shouldn't be the staple excuse to all the consequences that our actions have brought to us. Being a human isn't a ticket to being the forever sinner.


Common Ground

Opposite attracts and Like Signs Repel (?)
But when it comes to misunderstandings,we should never rely on this theory/law.
We should always find our common ground to resolve things;to fix whatever it is that got broken. I believe that both sides have their respective faults whenever we experience conflicts or quarrels.
How can you fix things when you're acting like an eagle and he/she's being a lion.
You should go down from your nest and try to mend things. Be humble enough to lay down your pride especially when the person you're having misunderstanding with is the person you really love.

Forgiveness

"Holding anger is like holding an hot iron. The longer you hold it,the more burned you will be"
Let us be reminded that whenever we don't forgive,we are also the ones who suffer,because our minds are unfree and our hearts will just be in cage. We can never have that inner peace when we have hate in our hearts. We should forgive because we are forgiven by the Lord- though we forgive,inevitable consequences are to be faced. Forgive and forget. Set yourself free from stress!

The Power of Empathy
Once we put ourselves on the shoes of others,that will be the only time that we can understand them truly. Though there are instances when we tend to be narrow minded,we should always seek to understand one's situation and background that determines why they behave like that. The power of empathy is really a big factor why we forgive people.

Would you wanna set yourself free from all the hate and pain? Why don't say sorry? Why don't forgive?




               
               
                                                                                                                                  ~Decoder


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